Kantipuri Nagari - Alkapuri Nagari.........

Seems like the days gone by.. the time gone .. most of all the attitude of people gone by.. this is what made me think about doing something getting someplace... but found out that .. ... me alone in the world fighting for the rights... what rights .. for whom for whom ?

Its been long gone days that it made ma heart felt with tears and only the sweet memories of the places i grew up.

Since ma childhood its really been a beautiful place to live. As the population growth gain in the capital city and more immigrants from south north and all over the nepal started to flow into the valley; the valley started to overcrowd and to accomodate all of them the natural beauty have been devasted and concrete jungle started to grow..

all ma memories of the valley and its greenary have been devasted and gone with the wind..............

Not only that the pollution started to crave in .....now i am afraid to breath in the air. The river once i used to play and drink water have been a drainage to wash away the dirt from the valley.....

its all gone .. yeah the beauty the place the heritage the culture all gone only the crowd of people to mingle all around and struggle ..... to make a space out of nowhere........the live is on the haze.....

the quote have been only as the remeberance ..................

Shivaratri---The night of Lord Shiva.......

Its been ages like I have been departed from this day.. ie I have not been able to celebrate the day ............

I looked upon this day as one of my favourites as you get to delve into the weeds and take the day and night out without the trance for the time....... i have been in the mood for the same after such a long lapse of time. I was looking forward for being in the enchanment with the lord shiva doing the "Tandab Nirtya" ..haha..

Any way the day was not that bad .. felt the endowment had been made on my behalf for life to be provided with the "bholenath ko prasad"... I was happy that I had been talking to my frens exchange of some good jokes and laugh the day out...........

but still the big but is there that i was hankering over the missing stuff.. haha..HOW I wished , longed and desire for a way want for the same.

Though today was the one of the spiritual days in a year when the Pashupati Nath been visited by the hindu pilgrims from all over the world.. the hinduism had taken this day and the place sacrosanct.... A kinda religious sanctuary..........

Apart from that people do fast and worship.......

But for the kids and small kids.. the baracading of way and making pay for crossing; the coins thus collected would make their day

... And the night will be warm and cozy as the camp fire would be made to burn the whole night with the vow for making shiva as happy as he wanted to be with the "ganja" smoke and the relentelessy enjoying the time......................

Photo courtsey: Ujwal

Peace

"Peace---- It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart."

I felt that there are lots of things to be considered to be in peace and harmony. Ones mind cannot cope at times due to disturbance ;cannot concentrate upon things with all the rumbling and grumbling from the surrondings but its not the truth .. that people can work, have harmony , synchronized living with the enviornment............even in worse situations

As I came upon the quote ; my mind suddenly wandered in the gaza palestine and afganistan...... where the war and peace been dwelling side by side without making much fuss.. how people can cope those situation is something i would consider as the evolution and ask myself why man is evolved from peace lover to war mongers..................why????

The question remains unanswered but i was forced to ponder in things like the kind heart sweet and soothing care......there are people like mother teresa , who shares and cares for all .....without a bias.

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Here in this materialist world that share and care became thing of the past and people tend to compare with those stuff countable in money........ .. but still i came across lots of people even in this present situation they care , they share and they joy upon the love they are disbursing.......most of sacrifice and contribution towards the betterment .. making a world a lil better place to live and make the newcomers experince the comfy and security at the same time.. to delve in new high tech world forgetting the spiritual ones....................

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Why then the world is becoming more sophisticated and complicated ...... why ppls mind always turning to make things worse rather than making it better..... The ppl who work to make things good; always forgets a bad being attached to it........

Cant they turn and look the coin other side before making things good... closing your eyes to see the bad things won't help much....... i guess we have to deal with it.. face it and makeshift for the better.....................

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May peace prevail upon all the .......................................

The Day I would keep............

It was really refreshing after the lastnights big evening with headbanging in the concert.

I was wondering at any moment ppl tend to get the entertainment.. but at what cost.. was always been my concern.. are we doing it right.. but yes or no.. is my contribution gonna make difference???? yeah a big question mark..i put to myself!!

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unwillingness to be out of bed.. i just rambled in net .......and HOLA ..its the valentines day!!! wat a lucky ppl gets to have dear one nearby.....with a soothing words.. and gifted with the smile and a DAY  to remember!!!!

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I just had a feeling I might be that lucky one too.. and there it was all written and posted with St. Valentines lovely words........haha.. what a cranky i had been as i didnot get those lovely words.. haha..

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As for the social structure to build; the sacrifice had been made from some at some point to gain some power .. which made the living easygoing and comfy for a lot.. Though the rampage happened here and there ; making people think ....its the beautiful and lovely place they are dwelling........even though the complain never ends!!!

how unsatisfied ppl are!!

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So the day happens to be showing extra(:shakchhi) bit of care and luv to the dear ones......not necessarily lover..................:

Any way the idea is about sharing and showing your luv towards dear ones. i guess thats wat the saint meant........as they are the ones to set certain kinda rule.....to forbid abide or break..hehe...

The bitter moments are forgotten and loving days to make a memoirs 

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Friday the thirteenth..........

The number itself have been the best for me.. its the best i can get..............

The number is lucky for me.. and the friday is ma favourite.. as i landed in the land where the friday is considered to be the start day of weekend.. hehe 

------------Friday the 13th---------

Apart from that .. the day with the number 13 is considered to be satanic as lots of bad omen have come across on this date of the day.......

But the day have been favourable for me... i was really in good mood...woke late due to some time off the night before and had a good time w/ frens as they just wanted to take a time out and the next day was the day off..... we all had joyous moment; and considering the time, the date had already been switched to 13th the friday..haha.. it seems it is mere coincidence or ma luck turned tupsy turvy................

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Afternoon was kinda boring ........ took the class and was facinated with the numbers and figures.. and saw it was the best part as i only see the number 2009 14 02 and all the numbers were rampaging me with 123 and zeros.. haha.. felt like they are dancing and mocking me as i was dizzy and the lethargy from the previous day  (...not being able to sleep ....)

then the break; I was totally relieved.............................................had a nice chat and a hearty laugh.........the best medicine for all times............and heals or discards your wounds...

Left class to find myself in dilemma .......... but i decided to carry on with frens , and have good faith upon myself and make ma comfy with the thought that i will have a timeout to be w/ ma fren...................

Just wanted to be w/ ma fren ......... The class made me so dull that i forgot to take the time out to talk / call ma fren..........

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Iron Maiden concert

In the evening , we did go to the concert of Iron Maiden ....... Been long that i have been in rock concert .. after the scorpions concert i have not had chance to amuse myself with some good head banging......today was a good day i had with all the best of ma times.......enjoyed the concert still the loneliness ........

The concert was really fabolous and the stage , lights and show was really cool with some numbers which i wud not miss... I was mesmerized with the show ... i really enjoyed despite all the hussel and bussels of the day .. and even my day was not that bad... except for the feeling of being away.......... lonely...........

What i really wanted to put here that despite the social confrontation about the bad 13th friday ................ i had all the joy and good moments i cud gather in a single day.............

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So to sum up, the dates or the days are not just mere a day .. its a part of life and ups and downs is always there.........

cheerz guys; to make it a lively one or just dwell in melancholy, choice is yours.. just don't count on chances............

Stress or not it is the stress....

As I was been restless that the time was nearing up for the weekend and the anxiety of going to meet a luved ones; the thought made me happy... but the point lies in here...I am going through the stress....

Believe it or not I think its the stress.. As all people tend to have a great time wanting to be in good mood and be happy as far as possible. Not only at tight situation and conditions people tend to stress; its in their wish for being in 

different place at different time with a different person than where they are? .. these all tends to make someone really in bad stress ... Its the dissatisfaction which tends to lead the people with more stress..

Yes, the need and necessity is different. There are lots of things people tend to get distracted and disambiguity in making descision have made them more unhappy than they cud be. The tensions building in their surroundings and the result of this outcome will start to gather and build slowly to make one more stressed.

The time not appropriate and the brain telling you and you heart and mind wanting different things will lead you to take stress or be stressed. As I was coming back home from work. I was having a joy ride; my fren driving and wanting to reach home at earliest for a good rest after a hard days work. We moved through the traffic and making our way back home easy cozy and nice drive with all the thoughts to be in the really nice and thinking of pampering oneself.... But the luck gave away or the time was not appropriate... the traffic starts to build up and the smooth drive was coming to a standstill.....

From here the delay in what to do and expections starts to fail.. and wanting to be in destination is really buggin us .. and we are started to get irritated and the tension building on us for longing to be home made us in distress and the stress began to take over........we were in stress and tesnsed and more and more the discontent feeling pouring to make us more stressed................................

Later as we reached our destination, we feel the relieve.......we knew we would reach our destined but not meeting our expection has simply made us stressed for nothing.........

In due course of time the relieve made ma think why was i stressed in first place. why cudnt i be relaxed in that situation ............ and i figured out .. its our acceptance level that makes us more vulnerable to the stress...

So, I learned that simply ones desire makes them such a weak that they leave the track and do sort of things that they sud not be doing and doing harm to oneself............................

----------merely the statement puts it right .........DONT WORRY BE HAPPY ---- but the question is how and how much and where and when and..... (WHY NOT).............................

These all thoughts came to me with all the wobbling and rumblin in my brain until i have to admit .. WHO CARES..................LIVE the LIFE as YOU WANT it ......to the fullest.........

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Life in Dubai

Once upon a time ....................

I used to hear the stories of the middle east ...... so called full of desert and the desert pirates wander in this vast open field of gold dust.......

That was the epic then now the time has been made this gold dust in to the real gold for many of us. I assumed that the place must be somewhat vacant and people stay in some tent so called tambu and have a fun filled nights with belly dancers and arak ..

But as I landed here I was amazed with the skyscrapers and the land of high tech with a low profile ppl all around. I was been taken aback from my previous conceptual of the place itself.. i merely see deserts; only oasis .. oasis filled with all kinds and types of humans with more vibrant flow of enriched and exorbitants.....

Frens and ppl suggested the Life in Dubai, is not what you imagined.. it is what you make out of it...... I went back then .. thinking the hightech is really high for me... I would rather have a simple life......

But as I was scooping ma days for some better opportunity .. I meddled and got into the realm once again to endeavour the great gleaming place have to offer........................

Still the life goes no but in dubai it rocks............ I have been really facinated with the outer shell have to offer.. didnot look back and thought how it cud have worsen; just dived to get the best for me .. myself and only me.........

I have been thinking after being away from home and parents and relatives and dear and near ones.. the woes one have to go through at the cost of dwelling in some foreign land with hype of enjoyment.. alas if it was to last for ever......The most good part of the life is what you get to learn and preserve it to the good deeds that comes after..... I came across lots of places, ppl and the stories how they are doing things in a different manner than they wud have...

Some time back i had a downhearted kinda blues;.....with just a mere stroke of a caring and soothing words... the woes flew back and had a hearty laugh since then; not only that the it had taken me to new heights and... and .. usher to make the things that i looked upon to be ; and fulfill ma dreamz................................

As to sum up the life in dubai.. with just a single line

LIFE SUCKS but DUBAI ROCKS!!!!!

Why we torture nature to rebound at us!!!!!

As was watching TV today morning and got the sight of news in Australian Wild Fire it reminded me of my post in FaceBook

I have been in sheer pain as ppl only considered about the 100 ppl dead .. arenot there any other creature that have been cremated .. and the whole of habitat along with it.. i wish ppl start to think about the mother nature and start to understand in virtue of true spirit and not only form the scientific explanations...

-------Every action have opposite and equal reaction--------------

this is what I considered when the life wud be miserable at some point in future due to the actions we do now tormenting the mother nature.. once its dead .. we along with our childrens and their childrens will suffer..........

I wish ppl start being responsible for their own act...........

 

Here is my old post...

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Why mother nature is getting mad at "us"

It seems that people are not doing justice to the mother earth...

Everyone wants a piece for oneself .. lets view the situation.. now ...everyone wants to be the supreme leader and show the power and get all the resources for themselves... like the war over the fossil fuel and the top leaders of the world are all after the fuel and preserve it and whoever have the most are going to be the most powerful but what if the fossil fuel gets over .....

IS THIS THE END OF THE LIFE...??????

It seems that people are not doing justice to the mother earth...

Everyone wants a piece for oneself .. lets see the condition.. now ...everyone wants to be the supreme leader and show the power and get all the resources for themselves... like the war over the fossil fuel and the top leaders of the world are all after the fuel and preserve it and whoever have the most are going to be the most powerful but what if the fossil fuel gets over .....

IS IT THE END OF THE LIFE...

but before that mother earth have to be protected .. but I see the natural forces have come up with its own remedies to make the things up ... 

so mother nature is really mad at us try to defend herself .. getting all the power to make the things even .. flood some place .. draught ... fire... earthquake..... etc etc etc....

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just beneath the soil the life starts germinates and grows to live to be the tallest...........ppl want to cut it short really short.........:(

Life treats you well......at the cost of nature........

The people are very obnoxious about ones life... Even i was pretty hesitant to treat myself for the betterment of life... was a very kinky about dress up i was very much lavish in expending but didnot care for what comes forth and about the returns.. That was really good kinda feeling you have; to see someone elated with just a mere...... simple things...

But now the things are much better if the sharing could take into consideration..........

Like ppl are pretty aware of what they are doing.. they have even started to share lots of goodies... to make the dwelling in here much cleaner healthier... and better place for the future generations to come..

All the authorities are trying their level best to make the eco-friendly and even the scientist are joining hands on the development of such a weapon to make life comfortable at the same time.. protecting environment....

Thus i find that now the life treats you well as it is in due course of development; you are bound to entertain yourself with lots of stuffs ..... movies, discos, pubs , what nuts... before in olden days;

there are less to be considered for enjoyment;they will have some kinda festivities.. rather than that .. not much of entertainment and recreations.

Along with the development, the evil of spoiling environment has become more prominent. Not only that the love for power; people started to make deadliest weapon.......which had taken the best of our natural habitats and creatures dwelling.........

So even though the future is uncertain the time, the moment we are living is pretty good and amusing our daily lives. We are trying to figure out new stuff everyday to amuse us and yes.. we even strive hard to get hold of some of our wildest dreams................................................

Any way the life is getting much better at the cost of mother natures best resources. Who is responsible for those.. who is considering to stop .. who is thinking of future .. no body . but still everyone wants best for his/her children and great grand childrens......................

But i don't see if we start making things good its not going to be pleasant for our successors....

We need to correct the smaller mistakes that we make in day-to-day life to be able to make it large huge and better. <little drops makes ocean>

So lets join hands and start saving mother nature.....and be well treated for better life.

Simple and easy things that could make a big difference.

1. Waste of food.........

2. Waste of energy .......... 

3. Waste of water ............ 

4. simpler things like using less paper........food wrappers.........etc etc etc etc ..........

IF YOU READ THIS COMMENT ON HOW ONE CAN SAVE THE MOTHER NATURE AND WHAT U ARE DOING ABOUT IT?????

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The Menz Rule

GEE .. from some old blogs and didnot remember where i copied from ..

but the rule is rule.. ahha no offenses.. 

why it seems that male domiant society is still the same but why in a personal life a woman plays a vital role and she have all the rules set...

GUYS --- "You are BOSS of the house and YES you need permission from your wife to say so"....

(for married ones. not the bachelors hahahaha)

So find some of MENz rule :

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We always hear "the rules" from the female side. Now here are the rules from the male side. 

1. Learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down. 

2. Sunday sports. It's like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be. 

3. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of it that way. 

4. Crying is blackmail. 

5. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints do not work. Strong hints do not work. Obvious hints do not work. Just say it! 

6. "Yes" and "No" are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question. 

7. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for. 

8. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a problem. See a doctor. 

9. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 days. 

10. If you won't dress like the Victoria's Secret girls, don't expect us to act like soap opera guys. 

11. If you think you're fat, you probably are. Don't ask us. 

12. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one. 

13. You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it done. Not both. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself. 

14. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials. 

15. Christopher Columbus did not need directions and neither do we. 

16. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings. Peach, for example, is a fruit, not a color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is. 

17. If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that. 

18. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," we will act like nothing's wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle. 

19. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, expect an answer you don't want to hear. 

20. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine... Really. 

21. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as baseball, the shotgun formation, or monster trucks. 

22. You have enough clothes. 

23. You have too many shoes. 

24. I am in shape. Round is a shape. 

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Reading my old blog i went back in times and guess what ..ppl tend to forget lots of pain they went thru and most of all the  torment comes from the loved ones... to leave a deeeeeep scar forever................

Apart from that why ppl are happy to take such an inficltion even after going thru the torture again and again and again.......................................

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The 11 month Nepal Calendar.........!!!!

The news came to me as a shock.......

What a calendar year with just 11 months...... i thought how this astrologers can increase or decrease the days of a year or nights as the early mornings..hehe.. seems some kinda fun to them .. playing with the faith of people.. 

But it seems that the BS calendar has not been adjusted from the early stages... 

So far i have heard about lunar calendars which seems to keep up with the pace of moon and make the so called lag and bag in a months time.. purne and aunsi as they called it to go along with the accurate time tables...... but this one month in a single year lapse is not something evitable and will be acceptable to the ordinary people like me; i thought then am i ordinary normal abnormal or some wacko........ haha seems the time's all gone tupsy turvy.

The 11 months calendar come to be one of the hilarious jokes to me. I could not take it any more .. then what about the next year.. will be 11 months again or the they could adjust it accordingly .. but then still the days of 30 -40 have to be made adjustement .. so one in blue moon are they going to make this sort of changes. 

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The thought beyond the calendar is what making me think .. as they say the time goes on and the life goes by ..........born in bed .... in bed we die.. so what the heck to keep pace with the time.

ONLY ppl who wish to make out of time . will be running after ..... but for me I am just chilling out ............ why crack ma head for some nonsense..............let it 10-11 0r 12 months....in a year... the time goes on........ ........................... .....................

The Joy of Sharing and Caring....!!!

HI to the World.

its a good kinda experience how people socialize and on top of that .. mostly .. grown-up seeking pleasure and kinda fun all the way along. ......

I have been in the desert and have not known or tried to delve into the culture of the ME.

As for me the way they have the culture is kinda reserved but the differences in the sexes and made me think that the male dominated society is pretty good and does well. But the people seem to behave good and thinks about the female a kinda toy. They have all the rights and female species are treated as inhuman kinda stuff.. ... :(

But things are not the same as earlier and  its changing. The freedom and western ways have influences and things are slowly changing but still the ladies have their own preferences but the more i started to understand the tradition; i started to have a bad feelings; though the discplines had been made such that the male have all the facilities they wanted and female are put in such a a confined world that they don't mingle with males...............

This seems that i have been making some social dishonour its kinda true to have these womens in ME with such a tradition.

Any way the male dominat society is not only in the ME but the more advanced countries also the female species are treated as a joyful equipment........ or a toy with blood and flesh........

Apart from these stuff but I kinda come across people that have been making things better in life. The best part is to mingle and make merry in social gathering. I being and introvert have had very little fun being in a social gathering ... but i started to know the ways of life and met many frens who are helping me come out of this blue kinda thing to a jolly kinda guy who is been with a group. The caring from frens and family makes things go right. The people who cares for you will never wanna hear that loved ones are in PAIN.........

So the sheer joy is when someone expresses his heartfeelings and takes care of you. YOU kinda have a better life and learn to share your sorrows and joys.........but the caring for u and life is kinda mystifying......................

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So learned a lesson that the pain eases with sharing and joy doubles with share......but the caring is what makes the differences.........

The change ..........yes the need for change

Its been long since i have had heard such a marvellous news about the natural calamity after tsunami......some eruption here and there and some ground shaking ........all of a burning sensation..

But the one i heard this morning shook me a lil and send

 a quiver in ma body........

***SNOWFALL IN DESERT MOUNTAINS***

Yeah !!! its kinda unbelievable that there is snowfall in mountains and temp dropping below freezing... not only that it was such a thick snow that made ma brain spin;  i started to have a chill feeling... "That is it really ; That the change is coming; Even the mother nature needs change"

Then as day passed everyone was busy exchanging views about the snow and even the ppl have a weirdest ideas about preserving those snow for recreation.. [how weird]

The ppl might not even imagine that there would be snow in this part of the world as ppl strive even for rain. 

The change is really coming slowly but is it for good .....or just the whim or bad omen like to control the population explosion ; or even to say the counter attacks for the technology boom;  

Not only that the earth is overloaded with the explosion of ppl and its been uncontrollable from our side and science is not doing much good for making world safer place to live in; not only that the life span and human hunger for more and dissatisfy for all could make the popl explosion far more annoying 

---nature may end the population explosion for us in an unpleasant way ---

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I really wished if i cud have gone to those mountain and have the feel of the snow fall .. i had never been in snow and would luv the experience and joy of getting to play in snow ..; that is also in desert mountains... a kinda creepy feeling...WHAT NEXT...........