As I was been restless that the time was nearing up for the weekend and the anxiety of going to meet a luved ones; the thought made me happy... but the point lies in here...I am going through the stress....
Believe it or not I think its the stress.. As all people tend to have a great time wanting to be in good mood and be happy as far as possible. Not only at tight situation and conditions people tend to stress; its in their wish for being in
different place at different time with a different person than where they are? .. these all tends to make someone really in bad stress ... Its the dissatisfaction which tends to lead the people with more stress..
Yes, the need and necessity is different. There are lots of things people tend to get distracted and disambiguity in making descision have made them more unhappy than they cud be. The tensions building in their surroundings and the result of this outcome will start to gather and build slowly to make one more stressed.
The time not appropriate and the brain telling you and you heart and mind wanting different things will lead you to take stress or be stressed. As I was coming back home from work. I was having a joy ride; my fren driving and wanting to reach home at earliest for a good rest after a hard days work. We moved through the traffic and making our way back home easy cozy and nice drive with all the thoughts to be in the really nice and thinking of pampering oneself.... But the luck gave away or the time was not appropriate... the traffic starts to build up and the smooth drive was coming to a standstill.....
From here the delay in what to do and expections starts to fail.. and wanting to be in destination is really buggin us .. and we are started to get irritated and the tension building on us for longing to be home made us in distress and the stress began to take over........we were in stress and tesnsed and more and more the discontent feeling pouring to make us more stressed................................
Later as we reached our destination, we feel the relieve.......we knew we would reach our destined but not meeting our expection has simply made us stressed for nothing.........
In due course of time the relieve made ma think why was i stressed in first place. why cudnt i be relaxed in that situation ............ and i figured out .. its our acceptance level that makes us more vulnerable to the stress...
So, I learned that simply ones desire makes them such a weak that they leave the track and do sort of things that they sud not be doing and doing harm to oneself............................
----------merely the statement puts it right .........DONT WORRY BE HAPPY ---- but the question is how and how much and where and when and..... (WHY NOT).............................
These all thoughts came to me with all the wobbling and rumblin in my brain until i have to admit .. WHO CARES..................LIVE the LIFE as YOU WANT it ......to the fullest.........
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